Resigning
Don't resign until you've got your new job offer in writing
Are you sure you want to?
- What are the pros and cons of your current job
- Is the new job the right move?
- Why did you look to change jobs in the first place? Why were you unhappy? Will these circumstances change?
- How would you feel if you were offered a promotion or a pay rise?
- Don't be swayed by friends and family encouraging a lack of action
- Don't be put off by imagining that it won't be the same without you
Remember your career is the important thing; the company will survive without you
Prepare your letter
- Include to whom it is addressed, the notice period, when it is effective from and your signature
- If you are leaving on good terms, concise sentiment goes a long way. Don't burn any bridges. Thank your boss for opportunities and express regret at leaving and a hope to keep in touch.
- If you are leaving because of a specific problem, don't elaborate. Keep it simple, don't document your anger or frustration, just keep your letter polite and to the point.
Timing
You may feel guilty or anxious or that you have let people down..
You may be sad about leaving friends
Remember why you are leaving and the positives about your new job.
Most people (including your boss!) have been in this situation. You won't be the first to resign at your company and you won't be the last.
Some tips
- Find the right moment for you
- Keep it confidential before you tell your boss
- Rehearse your reasons for leaving - you are bound to be asked
- Don't worry about the reaction, be polite and take it on the chin. It's almost never as bad as you imagine it will be
- If there is a handover period cooperate
- Stick to your guns. Don't be talked out of it.
- Don't be offended if your boss doesn't try to talk you out of it - remember, it is your choice to leave and if you've followed the advice above, you are doing it for the right reasons and for your own satisfaction.
